I Believe Family Is Very Important I dont usually write my real life experiences here. But for...

Picklebobble · 56-60, M

Your anger is well founded, and has to be acknowledged !
The problem when you have an addiction though, is that your mind is no longer your own !
It lives, breathes and serves only your habit.
You're right to feel angry !
And if she completes rehab, you'll have the chance to tell her so !

dubkebab · 51-55, M

Alcoholism wrecks families.Truth.
I am nearing ten years sober after many failed attempts,scandals and disasters.
Recovery is confusing at first because we have so much to unlearn,but becomes an easy and rewarding practice in time.I wish you and your sister all the strength and compassion you will both need in these trying times ahead.You are not alone in battling this disease.

Peaches · F

I have 2 sisters like that too Belle, one did die and the other one is only in her 40's but she looks older than 60. It's a terrible disease! I know it's hard not to take it personal, but they are lost to the alcohol and drugs until they can climb out of that hole that has swallowed them. The best we can do is pray for them, and I do all the time. God bless your poor sister.🥀🙏🏼

Brooksy · 41-45, M

I've watched my cousin go through the same thing, SBelle. These are the times you wish you had the answer and there just isn't one. I'll be praying for you and your family.

SW-User

I really hope
She has the strength
She needs to go through this
You made everything for her
You and the whole family
Now it's her turn
To fight for her life
It's up to her
Just my personal opinion
Hope everything will be alright
I wish you the best

fairone · F

I will pray 🙏 this time will be different. God bless you @Sbelle

bellybuttonfan17 · 36-40, M

Omg ! So sorry to hear this Belle! I really don't know what to say... As someone who equally believes in the concept of family ; and not having endured this, anything I say will be empty.

So I am going to hug you warmly and promise that if and when you need me, I am right here.

Cheers !

SW-User

I am so sorry for this. She is sick and her sickness drives her to be selfish. It is very hard to deal with people given over to addiction. They have no loyalties to anything, but the addiction.

Mondayschild · F

Thank you Lemony! For me and my family we will have to deal with this day by day. Her battle is just beginning and I hope she has the strength to to beat this monster living inside her.🤗

SW-User

So sorry, I have no words to make this ok but I will listen whenever you need it x🤗

jjoe01

I hope she have the will to do this. We do all we can for them, ultimately, it is up to them to want that change / rehab. If they choose not to, then whatever we do will not help them at all. We all have loved ones what we care so much, that we'd do anything for them, even give our lives up for them. They have to willing to accept, or all is in vain.
Hugs! xoxo

BemyValentine · F

I hear ya, girl. So sorry. Prayers are with you. Hugs.