I Want To Be Dominated By A Man

So, I am being asked what the point of this is if I don't get pictures or videos. In essence, how do I know if the slave is doing what it is told to do. Where is the proof?
My reply: Indeed the slave could lie about it's actions and punishments, it also could be male instead of female or vice versa, old instead of young. Absolutely. However, I will give it orders and it will reply. I have a vivid fantasy and reading it's replies about what it did sure get's me going. Besides, not everyone one is lucky to have a live-in slave. So, what do you do if your significant other doesn't care for it? Sneak up pics on your phone and pleasure yourself? Do you really believe all the pics, even the 'amateur' ones are actual slaves? In the end, it's all in your head unless you physically have access to a slave. So, from my perspective, yes it is a strange way of owning a slave and there is a lot of make believe, but it sure beats downloading pics or videos.
It is the true interaction with another human being that submits to you, offers itself to you, responds to your commands. In the end, I think it is a gift of time and self, precious and pleasurable and I was honored by every slave that made that gift to me.