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I Am Confused

So last night I got home home around 12:00 at night and my mom was awake. When I got into the kitchen she brought marriage. It was how she wanted to know that things will get better for me (this is about my exhaustion from work). Then I proceeded to talk about my sleep problems. Well about 10 minutes later. She asked me if I will ever find a girl I love and marry her and have kid(s) in the future. I told her that I did not want to think about getting a girlfriend and getting married and have kids. The reason I’m confused will be said shortly. I said to them that I did not want to be in a relationship. But mother’s, they know when something is slightly off when you answer their questions. She then asked me if I like men or women. I said women in a tone that lead her to ask me if I was kinda sure about that. I have a feeling my mom might be wondering if I’m gay because of the words she said to me afterwards. “Son I will love you no matter who you are or who you love, I will always love you.” That really got me thinking if I should go ahead and come out to her as gay or if I should continue to hold on to this secret. Others who have come out as gay knows it’s scary but I really need help with this. I would really appreciate it.
Montanaman · M
Sit down with her tonight and tell her your heart. It's obvious that she's got it, no matter what.👍🤗💕
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
Thank you. I will.@Montanaman
Montanaman · M
@LifeHurts66 👍👍🤗
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I think it is time you told your Mom. She will still love you the same as she does now.
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
I’ll tell her tonight@SweetMae
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Obviously, this is, in actuality, no secret. Telling her will not be giving her any information she hasn't figured out already. It's only a matter of whether or not [i]you[/i] are willing to talk about it with her.
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
I will tonight. Thank you@greenmountaingal
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@LifeHurts66 You are fortunate in having such a wonderful and accepting mother. Gay or straight, this is a real blessing. It's going to be OK.

 
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