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Need your thoughts, particularly from Ladies about questions a man asks that he doesn't think are creepy. [I Have Thoughts]

I think the questions are creepy, he doesn't, so we need your help to settle things.

These are the questions he asked in sequence:

1.) How tall are you?

2.) When's your birthday?

3.) What's your middle name?

Keep in mind he already knows my first name, what city I'm from, and where I go to school.

So are these questions creepy, yes or no?

Edit: I realized I wasn't very clear that this is a guy I met on here, we don't live near each other, and we talked for several hours before he started asking these questions.

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SW-User

No... they're just the three most basic, boring get-to-know-you questions.

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@SW-User to me those are questions you ask to get personal information to stalk someone.

SW-User

@sweetcheekz [quote]Keep in mind he already knows my first name, what city I'm from, and where I go to school.[/quote]

if he wanted to stalk you without you knowing he would have. people have done crazy shit with less.

Montanaman · M

Steer clear of any and all personal questions on here. 😳🙄😔🤗🤗

Coldplay · 56-60, M

DONT. DO. IT.

Rose0415 · 36-40, F

They don't seem creepy to me 🤔...

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mysteryespresso

@sweetcheekz wrong

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@sweetcheekz you are comparing apples to oranges with this one

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@mysteryespresso fine pm it to me

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Like2play · M

Don’t answer those questions from someone from this site.

4meAndyou · F

He is trying to steal your identity.

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@4meAndyou omg thank you, someone that actually agrees that its 100% creepy

4meAndyou · F

@sweetcheekz There are people who will try to take advantage of very young or innocent seeming women. I'm surprised he didn't ask for your mother's maiden name...😝

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

In the computer age with the prevalence of hackers i would be concerned about questions 2 and 3, middle name is often used as a password and birth date could make it possible to get credit cards in your name...especially if they figure out your last name somehow.

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@istillhaveanameitsrick apparently there are people on SW that are susceptible to hackers.

SW-User

VERY CREEPY

Justafantasy · M

Knowing all you've mentioned is kind of disturbing. I mean height with no idea of name/location not really disturbing. Almost looks like password backup phishing

mysteryespresso

if you like him it's not creepy, if you dislike him his presence is creepy

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@mysteryespresso I don't dislike him, we had long conversations before this

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I don't think it's creepy...someone girls here like answer questions instead of asking questions...

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

🤨he asked you these things back to back to back?

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@DeluxedEdition yup

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@sweetcheekz hmmm he sounds very awkward

Mamapolo2016 · F

If you find someone creepy, follow your instincts.

NaughtyPickle · M

Ever had double penetration ?

theAlchemist · 56-60, M

He's a creep and not to be trusted.

Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M

Creepy. Don't give it to him

canusernamebemyusername · M

That's too fast imo.

reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M

I think maybe he was trying to sound random and eccentric? or maybe he just wanted to say random things to spark off a conversation, or to put you off guard a bit?

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@reflectingmonkey we already had long conversations before this

Dshhh · M

most men have NO CLUE how to talk to women. I am not saying i am not flirtatious, but all those lame questions show them up as tiny in the brain

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

He just isn't a conversationalist. These are basic conversation skills but he could start off with humor or some deep stuff about life etc.

stound

maybe on the middle name one with the other info, but the rest seem very benign

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@stound yea its not any one question, its them combined

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Identity theft!
My first reaction...

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@ozgirl512 Yes thank you! idk how some people think this is ok

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@sweetcheekz it's not ok... Maybe I'm a cynic but it's stood me well...

bijouxbroussard · F

2 & 3 are answers one could use for possible identity theft. They used to be innocuous questions—less so in the age of the internet.

ButterflyNB · 18-21

1.context needed
2. No
3. Kinda

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

2 and 3 seem a bit early to be asking about after a few hours. 1 seems like an odd question unless height is important to who he might be attracted to.

At the end of the day, whether the questions are creepy or not if you feel uncomfortable answering them he should respect that was a response. If he's not letting that go, it definitely becomes creepy if it wasn't before.

Lilnonames · F

He should say im 5 9 how tall are u.and my full name is .... whats yours and im a leo my birthday is.. whats your sign.
And he should send a pic

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DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@sweetcheekz [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fod9gWq_QYQ]

in these days and age... beware of the wolf disguised as a sheep

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@sweetcheekz i think it's because there were a lot of whiney posts today directed toward men being creepy for saying harmless things.

when i first saw the post i literally thought to myself "here we go again" and then i read it and yeah. personally i do think your situation is creepy. always be careful, okay? 🙂🙏💕

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@DeluxedEdition That explanation literally brings back hope in humanity for me again.

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minxy · 46-50, F

@sweetcheekz FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!
HE IS A CREEPY CREEP!!!!
HOW DARE HE ASKS QUESTIONS!!
THAT'S SOME FUCKING STALKER ASS SHIT !

sweetcheekz · 22-25, F

@minxy ok why did you delete your own response that directly contradicts what you just wrote?

minxy · 46-50, F

@sweetcheekz You're asking questions, you creepy stalker you.

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