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I Wear Make Up

My grandad asked if I was okay and I threw a chair at him so he took my make up away! I'm gonna look dreadful!
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@ladyfreya
They did that, and maybe that was an overreaction, but I think (and hope) that it was just this once. That doesn't mean they do it again or that they started a new habit there. I understand that it upsets you, especially if you're not used to that ever happening. Your grandparents are of a different generation than your parents (with different ways) and they were probably a bit overwhelmed. They are not used to having chairs thrown at them either. I'm sure they mean well though, and that they didn't want to treat you that way. Sometimes things happen in the heat of a situation. It doesn't mean they love you any less. The situation is as uncomfortable to them as it is to you. Give it a bit of time. You'll be good together again.
It's sad that you can't speak to your parents about it. I'm sorry about that. I hope things will get better very soon.
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@cyan-eyed but I never get slapped! I'm trying to call mummy and daddy so they can stop them but they're not answering! Megan said they've gone on holiday to try and fix their marriage! I hate my life!
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Then find some other things to have on your mind. It's no use just going over it again and again in your mind. Get some distraction and do more fun things: talk to friends, read, watch movies, play games, anything. I'm sure you can think of better things for you than I can.
You're stuck with them for now. That doesn't mean you have to sit there being angry all the time. Get some distraction. At least you'll feel a bit better doing other things.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
Lucky that's all he took from you for throwing a chair at him
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@ladyfreya
A first reaction to a shock isn't always the best one, but in this case it's very understandable because of that. If it were me at your age, I would have expected it. To me it did happen before, and of course I never liked that. The sentiments on both sides will sink down again. That always takes a little time.
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
A7xqueen well i was upset
Awkward · 100+, M
@ladyfreywilliams I see lol... :)
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
You threw a chair at him though. I'm not saying everyone isn't mean to you or anything like that since I have no idea what your life is like, I'm just going off from what you wrote..
He asked if you were okay and you threw a chair at him. Makeup being taken away for that doesn't sound so bad to me
Jarshuwa · 22-25, M
That poor chair 😂
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@ladyfreya
That was a really wild action then. I hope you find better ways to make yourself clear. Your granddad must have been shocked a bit by that. Maybe if you treat him extra friendly, he'll get a bit milder to you again.
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@cyan-eyed well they slapped me. I've never been told off before, let alone slapped! So when he asked if I was okay it was pretty obvious I wasn't!
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@PlumBerries I'm not lucky at all! I hate it here everyone's mean to me
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@cyan-eyed it broke and now they're saying I have to pay for it!
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
I can't give it a bit of time! I hate this and I hate them!
Sunshine · 26-30, F
I can assure you that you'll look fine without makeup
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@Sunshine Yes of course I will but I'll look so plain!
Awkward · 100+, M
First thing I thought from this was... "Gosh you're strong" o.O
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@PlumBerries but I need my appearance!
ladyfreyawilliams · 22-25, F
@Awkward well I do a billion sports so
I think you could of handled that better. 🤔
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How's the chair?

 
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