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Should I break up with my gf? [I Am Depressed]

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I’ve been with my fiancé for a while now. Her mental illness started getting bad around the beginning of the pandemic and has gotten even worse. I’m subject to verbal and emotional abuse and neglect. She screams at me and throws tantrums. A few minutes ago she told me that things she loved about me annoy her now and looking at my face just makes her feel guilty because of how her mental health is affecting our relationship. She’s supposed to go get on medication this week, but I feel like the damage is done. She told me she needs time by herself right now, but I don’t even have gas money to leave. So, I’m just in a different room of the house. I also struggle with depression, anxiety, and PTSD, but I don’t treat her the way she treats me. Should I break up with her? I have given her multiple chances to get help, and her behavior is triggering my own mental illness issues.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Tell her to go and get help. Try some counseling and if it doesn't work out then choose whatever is good for you.

I'm not telling you to not leave her but give one last shot before giving up.
lequack2 · 26-30, F
@Beatbox34 I am really trying hard to level with her and be supportive, but she’s not even appreciative of that. I just feel worthless and uncared for.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@lequack2 You're not worthless.

If you feel that then maybe you should take a break. I only said that think twice about it because sometimes we regret our decisions after implementing them.

Take a break if you must and then think twice about whatever decision you take.
curiosi · 61-69, F
Sounds like you have already made your decision.
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