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I Am Depressed

My best friend who I have known for 14 years has made my life unbearable and he is threatening to ruin my life and I don’t even know what I did wrong. I can’t stop crying because he has hurt me so much. I don’t know what to do anymore. Help me please.
JulesRules128 · 22-25, F
Hey, I think I can relate to you. Not everyone goes through the same things, but I've gone through a similar thing. The number one thing you should do is talk to him. Ask him why and if he won't give you an answer, he is at fault. He will threaten you and be mean, but don't let him get to you. Some people change and maybe if you guys talk it out civilly than you can figure out what his problem is. There has to be some reason for him to start doing this. I talked with my friend and it got better for a bit, but she started again. So eventually we just split apart. It hurt, but it was the best thing. You do not want to be in a stressful friendship. If he continues to be rude and threaten you, he is no friend. He is a bully. Be strong and end the friendship if you two cannot work it out, but I hope you guys can.
You say you have no one to talk to about this, but you do. You have lots of people on SW and you can message me if you want and I can do my best to try to help. :) I know what its like.
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
That means a lot @JulesRules128
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
I appreciate it. But this is not the first time it has happen and I do believe it’s time to cut our friendship off. I can’t stand the pain. I really do appreciate all of you for giving me some advice.
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
How is he making your life unbearable?
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
@LifeHurts66 so he's threatening to spread rumours about you and physically hurt you?
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
Yep and I don’t know why. @KaiserSolze
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
@LifeHurts66 does it matter why?

You need to tell everyone. Anyone who will listen. From head teachers, to classmates, to the janitor. Tell family. Tell his family. Tell everyone.

What's the worst that'll happen? He'll deny it, call you a liar and then not spread rumours and physically assault you. Then you cut him out of your life completely.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Obviously, you need to see if you can talk to him about it and find out why. If he continues to threaten, consider telling someone about it.
I'm truly sorry. I hope you have someone you can talk to.
LifeHurts66 · 22-25, M
I don’t@PrivateHell
@LifeHurts66 I would love to help, but I can't contact you because of your age.
Montanaman · M
Gotta talk. It's the only way 😔

 
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