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"I'm sorry" is saying "I'm sorry that happened to you" implying you empathize which is perfectly fine. If you want to say more or know more then ask about how they felt/ or feel now. Focus on feelings not the details of what happened because when people want to know details it comes across as either creepy or judgmental whereas asking about their feelings shows real concern.