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updown2020 · 61-69, M
Yes it is make sure if you have life insurance make sure you change the name who the money goes to because if you do not your Ex get it. Get your own bank account get your name off any joint account you have with your Ex. If you are getting the house have all the locked changed just to make sure you are the only one with keys. If the lock are good just call a locksmith to change the key and while you are at it have one key for all the locks. If there's an alarm system make sure you change the master code and delete your ex code and call the alarm company and remove his name. Because if you do not well he could break into the house and call the alarm company and tell them anything and because his name is still their they will still listen to him this is fact. I use to work in the field so I know this. If there are kid try your best to keep them out of it remember he is still their dad and they love him. Depending the laws where you live kid have a choice whether the want to see their dad or not. Get your own credit cards do not use any joint cards because he still has rights to them so he could charge them up and you are stuck paying for them well you both are. But still get your own.
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@updown2020: thank you very much. We are both europeans french/Irish and totally dismayed with canadian laws but we are done.
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@Djce45: thank you. Am turning a page too and trying to stay optimistic too 🙂
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Context does matter... of course you should review your own record and see where you need to change.. repent, .. what have you, and then move on and stay strong.
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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
revenant...the lesson I learned was that there is so much life to live...never give up and love yourself and do things that make you happy!
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Well now that would suck!
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@Northwest: thank you northwest..you hit it..the emotional devastation, the anxiety etc..almost unbearable.
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@GentleJoe: he is nice intelligent and loves me but he is a special snowflake still.
a generation issue..by 20 I had accomplished much.
a generation issue..by 20 I had accomplished much.
GentleJoe · 61-69, M
As long as there's love, everything else can work out.
wintersecret · 41-45, M
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@romell: thank you romell
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@romell: well I hope so but am all alone now. arghhh i do not want people to feel pity for me.
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@AutumnxRayne: thank you
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@GentleJoe: it has been years in coming really but thank you for your comment.
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@shyuncut4u: it is not going to be an easy one at all but many thanks
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@JoanieNewHampshire: thank you
Your welcome, I've been divorced. After 15 years and a highschool romance. It's heartbreaking.
Callmesonia · 61-69, M
Just to let you know.
My wife and I separated and then divorced after 20 years. And from the day our divorce became final, we have become the best of friends and enjoy each others company more now than I think we ever did.life moves on and in most cases for the better.
My wife and I separated and then divorced after 20 years. And from the day our divorce became final, we have become the best of friends and enjoy each others company more now than I think we ever did.life moves on and in most cases for the better.
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okaybut · 56-60, M
It is brutal...hang in there. It take about 3 years or so to get back to normal, but it is an incredible growing period if you let it. :)
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
I know,my first wife ran off with someone else,,,it was hard,,,,,
FOUR23RD · M
any kids to go with divorce