I Am Getting a Divorce

2 more weeks till we part and I move out, I'm staying at the place while she stays at her parents. She txted me last night that she needs to come over. I can't stand the sight of her right now, and she's totally taken a new page over money, and i feel like she's going to try and come here to convince me of it, as she did a few days ago. Talking with her goes no where, as she'll aim to start reasonably, but then explode if she doesn't get her way, and if the conversation turns into a discussion or with me suggesting a point/alternative just even saying something most times, she'll spin it into an attack on her and start screaming. It was never like this in the beginning 5 years I was with her, just got more like this way in the last 3 years.

Just psyching myself up to mentally endure this again. She's really lost herself. Its very painful to see.

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Misplaced anger. She probably doesn’t mean anything she is saying but doesn’t know what to do with her anger and hurt. Don’t take it so personally. You both need time to work out your feelings and adjust. Good luck.

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Keepitsimple thanks for saying that, I do try and not take anything she says literally, especially at this point.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

It’s not easy. Trying to stay amicable isn’t always easy and it can be brutal when emotions are at its highest. @earlycrisis

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Keepitsimple I hear ya. I'm staying calm, and praying these 2 week go by quick

SW-User

When I got divorced I finally understood what divorce really meant. And that was sharing decisions with a person I would run down on the street

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@SW-User lol i hear ya!

Axelerator · 26-30, M

I’m sorry to hear that, it’s always sad when people get so different with eachother, after having been together.

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

I wonder if something happened within the last few years to make her feel like she’s lost some sort of control of the life in front of her. It sounds like there’s something vital being torn apart inside of her. Whatever brought on this obviously painful to everyone involved shift, I hope some semblance of peace finds you both down the road. Until this chapter ends, focus on your own level of calm when you two come together and keep your composure the best you can.

Montanaman · M

😔🤗 I'm sorry that you are going through this.🤗

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Montanaman i appreciate it bro

Montanaman · M

@earlycrisis Always.🤗

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