I Believe A Relationship Is Built On Respect And Trust
I learnt you can love a person but not trust them at the same time. Amazing how cheating can destroy a relationship.
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Spoiledbrat · F
JBird · F
@Spoiledbrat I have taken break from the relationship. I tried going back. It was too soon. I was kept reminding of the infidelity, I was asking too many questions about it, arguments came up. Even when he says I love you or the girl he was talking to is just a friend, I was going mad because I was doubting him subconsciously.
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
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on one side is a girl that is basically singing that song to me and on the other are all the jealous ones like "You must pledge me your one and only or I am not interested..."
I don't get monogamy, I don't get why anyone would pick conditional love when there is at least relatively unconditional love available.
on one side is a girl that is basically singing that song to me and on the other are all the jealous ones like "You must pledge me your one and only or I am not interested..."
I don't get monogamy, I don't get why anyone would pick conditional love when there is at least relatively unconditional love available.
JBird · F
@BetweenKittensandRiots You haven't read my story properly. I said one can love without trust. Love and relationship are not correlated but trust and relationship are.
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
I learned it's better when there are no rules.
If some girl broke my heart who do you think would be there to clean up the mess?
If some girl broke my heart who do you think would be there to clean up the mess?
IamBack · 31-35, M
Communication my dear, a relationship is built on communication
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Spoiledbrat · F
He came to my house and apologized but I knew his type. He was a player. I still didn’t regret dating him. @BetweenKittensandRiots
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
@Spoiledbrat I am SO over her... It's just that she was really the last 'girlfriend' I had before me and and lys met, and as much as i'd delight in calling her my 'Girlfriend" so everyone would shut the fuck up she'd have a fucking fit if word got back to her about what I referred to her as to other people and she's already up my ass about supposedly using our connection to weasel my way into progressive circles like I even need a connection to a left wing activist to prove my leftism.
(I don't.) But I never mislead lyssa that my intentions toward her were romantic in nature and she never respoded in a way that indiciated those feelings were not reciprocated it's just that the terminology she tends to use is "Special friend." which all things considered. https://similarworlds.com/9828004-I-Want-a-Lover-Who-Is-Also-My-Best-Friend/2574980-Perhaps-it-sickens-some-people-but-my-OTP-was
is perfectly acceptable.
if some girl can imagine a romantic friendship and sees me as such that is what I wanted anyways...
I have this friend and we're not playing by the rules of normal platonic friendships... and she is the best thing that ever happened to me.
it seems to me what I want resembles what most people think of as a friend of the opposite sex but of course.. would be in love with that friend and very much with benefits.
(I don't.) But I never mislead lyssa that my intentions toward her were romantic in nature and she never respoded in a way that indiciated those feelings were not reciprocated it's just that the terminology she tends to use is "Special friend." which all things considered. https://similarworlds.com/9828004-I-Want-a-Lover-Who-Is-Also-My-Best-Friend/2574980-Perhaps-it-sickens-some-people-but-my-OTP-was
is perfectly acceptable.
if some girl can imagine a romantic friendship and sees me as such that is what I wanted anyways...
I have this friend and we're not playing by the rules of normal platonic friendships... and she is the best thing that ever happened to me.
it seems to me what I want resembles what most people think of as a friend of the opposite sex but of course.. would be in love with that friend and very much with benefits.
Spoiledbrat · F
By saying people cheat when they less than satisfied I was trying cover all grounds. They obviously less than satisfied. People cheat because they’re not happy and if people who have been cheated on blame themselves that’s their fucking problem. They need to get a fucking self esteem because no one owns anyone. People can change their mind anytime they want to. @BetweenKittensandRiots