I Need Advice On My Relationship

Ok, so there's this girl that I really like and whom I have taken out on a date before. I like everything about her and I'd love to continue dating her, but there's one slight problem. I'm starting to get this feeling like I'm coming across like a boring person to her. It's just that, I struggle to carry on a conversation sometimes, there's that awkward pause and I'm not sure what to do. And the funny thing is, it only happens with her. With everyone else, I can carry on a conversation easy, but with her I dunno.. It's frustrating really... Like I said, she means a lot to me and I'd love to keep dating her, but do any of you have advice about this "talking" issue for lack of a better term?
Any advice will be helpful.

Oh, also, ditching her isn't an option so I'm looking on advice to help the situation not make it worse, lol.. Thanks!:)

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Sarabee · 41-45

You're nervous calm down she doesn't bite I bet she'll Evan do most of the talking deep breath n breath and look into her eyes❣🤗I hope it works out

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Sarabee · 41-45

@SW-User you're right I do wish❣🤗

SW-User

@Sarabee Lol, thanks for the advice. 🤗

Sarabee · 41-45

@SW-User men usually just stay at home it's us girls who are social butterflys

drymer · 56-60, M

Finding common interests it's an obvious answer. If you don't know her well enough to know about matching interests, even better: ask away about herself, ask about what she likes, what she finds funny... Like random questions they post sometimes here in SW... "What are your 3 favorite animals?"... Silly random questions like that... That shows you want to KNOW her, and it should flatter her (?) that you want to know all details about her, I bet she'll feel special, being asked about those things no one ever asked her before... Ask her about her future, what would her perfect life would be? How would her ideal family be? Would she rather live in the city, or in the countryside? Mountain or beach? At the very least you'll find out lots about her too!
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SW-User

@drymer That's pretty sound advice. We do have a lot in common so that helps. She's really big into anime tough which I don't know much about.. I suppose I should start researching that. Thank you :)

drymer · 56-60, M

@SW-User Oh anime! Good one... *ask* her about her favourite animes, and *why*... animes can get very deep and complicated... you can easily spend hours talking about it... Good luck!
:)

SW-User

@drymer Thanks. Actually I know her favorite is Fullmetal Alchemist, which in my opinion is a pretty sweet read. She has great taste. Thanks! :)

SStarfish ·

Idk hope things work out for you *sigh

SpaceCreature · 26-30, F

I say just be yourself, if she likes you then she wouldnt mind the awkward moments.

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