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I Love to Cuddle

I don't like when guys have a problem with being the little spoon every once in a while... It always makes me feel like a struggle for dominance and it gives me anxiety... It could just be societal norms making them homophobic because another person's body cradling their ass! Even though I am very much female, it could make them feel emasculated in some way... But when dear sets in, I can't help but feel dominated... It is a very unpleasant and confusing situation to be in.
djjohnson · 41-45, M
Didn't realize guys felt this way if a woman holds them from behind. I guess I don't have a problem with it because if I have sexual thoughts when held like this my focus isn't on my butt but what I'm feeling pressed against my back.
Simonsrk · 46-50, M
I COMPLETELY understand how you feel.
Did you know the Welsh have a word for cuddling called Cush? To give someone a cush is to cuddle them! I love that x
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
Spooning can lead to forking...

In all seriousness, some just have a hard time relaxing.
shyhusband · 61-69, M
I general spooning is fun however it doesn't last very long, its ummm too arousing.
Pat999 · 31-35, M
love to cuddle too, who really doest?
shyhusband · 61-69, M
umm to be honest I don't understand.
lostinspice · 51-55, F
I don't like being the big spoon!
Serenitree · F
In all my years, I never found that with anyone. Perhaps, it's a sign of the times. The last time I spooned with anyone, was in 1985.

June 11/17
2:48 pm
EDT
Goralski · 51-55, M
Hmmmmmmmm are you wearing a strap on at d time
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
@Goralski: NO
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I have never been the big or little spoon.

I am a spoon all alone.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
uh, wow...

 
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