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My 26 year old daughter-in-law has asked for my help??

Poll - Total Votes: 72

Take a few bikinis at a time

Take all the bikinis in one hit

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My son is apparently obsessed with her wearing a bikini to the point where he even expects her to wear them to bed.
She wants me to help her out by removing her bikinis for her.
How would be best for me to do it for her.
I would like to thank those who have answers and if I upset or offended anyone I apologize for that

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ABCDEF7 · M Best Comment

This is not the solution. It may trigger arguments which may get violent, and you may become responsible/part of it. He may also opt to buy new ones.

You are not eliminating the problem. Problem is not in wardrobe, problem is in the head.

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ABCDEF7 · M

@Coastallady Maybe your daughter-in-law looks more sexier to your son when wearing bikinis. And he enjoys it. I guess there is no easy & simple situation, and your daughter-in-law need to handle this herself in a very delicate way. She can take help of psychologist to understand how she should proceed.

meat18 · 56-60, M

@Coastallady or he may go out and buy her more!

mysteryespresso

@Coastallady why won't she wear something that keeps him happy?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Ok dude. Have some coffee.

Keeper · M

Good thing you came here for an answer 🙄

Straylight · 31-35, F

@Keeper Our collective of experts are ready to help. 😂

Keeper · M

@Straylight no proper introduction required - just projectile vomit your weirdness and deviant sexual needs accordingly.

dubkebab · 51-55, M

@Straylight I did study bikinis in college,after all...

Gangstress · 41-45, F

She's a grown ass woman. Wtf

plungesponge · 41-45, M

What in the f

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@plungesponge My screen is oozing shit

TheArbitrator · 36-40, M

Stay out of their marriage.

Fairydust · F

[image deleted]@TheArbitrator it’ll be a fake account, prepare for it to get worse lol 😂

Coastallady · 51-55, F

@TheArbitrator Hard when she is asking

hlpflwthat · M

Slowly untie the bra and let if fall to the floor. The bottom should be peeled down the hips with both hands until reaching her knees whereupon it should drop to the floor and she can step out one foot at a time. Hope this helps.

dubkebab · 51-55, M

@hlpflwthat If she's left footed is it still ok to lead with the right foot?
I'd hate to be a party to any more bikini mishaps.Excellent advice otherwise.

hlpflwthat · M

@dubkebab I'm not sure I can say, as a left-footed girl would normally be naked anyway.

bijouxbroussard · F

@hlpflwthat 🤦🏽‍♀️

Iwillwait · M

Encourage counseling and stay out of his affairs.

Coastallady · 51-55, F

@Iwillwait my daughter-in-law came to me, I tend to have to be nother and mother-in-law to her, as she lost both parents to a car accident. So it is a complicated situation as she looks to me very heavily when she needs help or advice

Iwillwait · M

@Coastallady sounds to me like you're already set on what you're going to do. I wish you and your family all the best.

Straylight · 31-35, F

Dude, it is too early for this. 😆

Viper · M

Um, this sounds co-co...

Just tell her to wear the pants 👖 then she's in charge!

Uncannyoak · M

Well if he likes them so much why doesn’t he just wear them

Kcmzeph · 31-35, F

This sounds so uncomfortable

TakenDown232 · 46-50, M

I think you let her wear bikinis as your son, her husband's want. But you also share and wear bikinis when you meet at their home or yours. And you and your daughter-in-law insist your son wears bikini panties at home too. Wow, this will be hot for all.

pdockal · 56-60, M

Why get involved

MarineBob · 56-60, M

Buy her a 1950's style

questionWeaver

Muted

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Wow Q....you’re softening 🤗@questionWeaver

questionWeaver

@Keepitsimple LOL

SW-User

How lovely .. block

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

Advise your son to get some psychological help. Perhaps advise your daughter in law to take him to couples counselling. Prepare to support both of them in divorce proceedings.

Don't get involved with the bikinis.

Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M

Would your son be okay with you helping her take them. Now sure I would want to get involved between them.

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Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M

@Coastallady Just hate to see your son get mad at you. Can she just tell him that she does not like it or can you talk to your son?

Coastallady · 51-55, F

@Darkskiescoming as far as I can gather he is pretty much being awkward about certain part of married life if she won't wear for him

Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M

@Coastallady Good luck with whatever you decide. I worried for you about his reaction with he finds out Mom took them all.

looking4thesun · M

I look at this and I see she is asking you to remove them from her body for her. to get your son and her husband to see the body is much better naked in bed. now if it was me, I would gladly remove her bikini from her. ;)

JayneA · 36-40, F

Does she want you just to take away for washing, or for temporary reasons or does she want you to have them? Has he previously shown signs of a dominant personality and demanding what she or someone else wears?

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

Wtf 😂

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

If she wants you to take them ok but she needs to refuse to tell him that she had you take them. So strange the way people want what they want the psychology of fetish but I understand.

unusualme · 56-60, M

Pls have a heart to heart chat with your son. Explain to him what a woman appreciates, then do what you’re comfortable with.

Coastallady · 51-55, F

@unusualme it is already done this evening thank you for answer

unusualme · 56-60, M

@Coastallady I hope that the situation is better now.

nevergiveup · M

As a father of 4 i think she needs to sit down and deal with him. Its about compromise maybe she could ware one when they are in the mood just to put some fun into it