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No Regrets

[b][center]Matters of the Heart[/center][/b]

Once during a deep discussion with an ex, somehow knowing the many relationships I've been through She asked,"How can you just walk away from a relationship, how can you just do that?".
My reply was,[i]"Because when I give myself to anyone, I give all, right here, right now!". [/i](1 Corinthians 13:3-5)

Saw her a couple months later in a Postoffice Lobby only the two of us were there, I just passed and did my business while she was busy primping herself.
Ten minutes later, saw her at a Bank which was just across the parking lot from the Postoffice, which again only the two of us were there. She just stared at me the whole time trying to catch my attention as I could feel her eyes watching me, she was on one end and I at the other. I contunued my business laughing and conversing with the cashier walking out smiling and grinning as I did.

She wanted closure and for me to call her up or meet, as my sister called me up to say so, I said,"No Ways, its her problem not mine!".

You see my friends when I give of myself to anyone (including friends) there is nothing held back,[i]Nothing![/i].
And when I'm done, it is done! I don't have any regrets or feelings. As far as I'm concerned your a stranger and no longer a part of my life or world.

Love in a Complex Domestic Problem (Luke 18:27)

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[b]Conflicts[/b]
Don't look outwardly on what you think is the other persons problem or their actions that contributed to it.[i]No matter how much you try, you can't change a person, and through prayer only God can.[/i]

Instead [i][b]take control[/b][/i] search your heart and recognize the problem, then what you can do to resolve it, (actions usually speak louder than words) [i]after all aside from God you know yourself better than anyone. [/i] (James 2:17-19)


[b]I'm DONE![/b]
Before you call it quits in any relationship, know that you've given it your all, whether it entails your self-esteem, a helping hand, finances, support, believing, trusting, (have i missed any) and above all the [i]Love[/i] when you gave of yourself in each action. (1 Corinthians 13)

[i]Abuse my friend is a different matter in its-self, for I a man went through it too. [/i]

God Bless and Keep you (Numbers 6:24-26)
She needed closure. It’s okay to walk away but she needed closure.
eyeno · M
@Watching overlooked many a violation of trust during a three year period.

From her own lips said, "I should move with my son and go back to Oahu" and another time said,"she just hated my son".
At another time and a few, caught her setting up a rendezvous with another, not to mention her ex.

A day before I left, she was hired as a office Mgr. I said," you better watch out you'll lose your job, she asked why and how do I know, I said, " because of your mouth!
Sure enough I'd like to say within two months, found out she got fired. For the same reasons God showed me and warned me about.

All these insights and blessings on knowing what was about to happen was from my precious and loving ABBA (To protect me and my heart).

Question: do I hate, no. I've prayed for her prosperity and well being and gave her up to God. Once I give the person up to God, its out of my hands.

One cannot change a person no matter how hard we try, only God can.

Thank you Father for loving me.
@eyeno I understand. Not judging your Situation.. I’m just saying that’s what she was after.. closure.
eyeno · M
@Watching yup... maybe among all her brokenness she'll learn through God's teachings.
SW-User
Understood .Everyone's stories are different. I am no one to judge anyone's reasons for why they do what they do .Just observing and learning .
Carazaa · F
I think God requires us to forgive 70x7 and turn the other cheek. To love this lady and "give it your "all" and then just walk away from her when she is hurting seems cold. I could never do that. No matter how much a person has hurt me I forgive and want to make them happy if they ask for forgiveness. I could also not ever just block a computer if I had the capability to do that even if someone stole from me. I go to prisons, hospitals, and court to be with hurting people even if they have done me wrong at times. People change.
[b]"Love your enemies and pray for those who despitefully use you" Jesus says.[/b]
Thank you for a meaningful post. Mankind needs to read and absorb this All.
eyeno · M
@sspec thank-you for your kind words.
The Lord bless you and keep you.

 
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