Personally i think many more men these days like women with vurvy sexy bodies... After all the problems the fashion mags caused with the massive size 0 rubbish... Curvy women look healthier too i think..

How many guys hit on you has nothing to do with how often someone wants to be in a relationship with you.
Most men that hit on you are not looking for a relationship.
Personality and Relationship skills are way more important.
Some men like curvy women, some men like thin women.
No particular body type has everyone 's preference.
But most men do not prefer a woman that literally looks like a boy. That one I can reasonably say is true.
Right now having a big butt and hips are in style. Fat is not curvy so be careful. People use the word curvy to mean fat now.

I have always been too skinny

Nope, total BS.

You finished with curves great in general curves are way more appealing which is probably why your friends are all jealous of your incredible figure. Though I can understand wanting clothes to fit better

You got at one so wrong it's not even funny.

Never have I had a skinny women be assertive and want to go out. It's because a heavier set women is more assertive that they get the dates.

If you're slim or skinny be more assertive! Heck I am skinny myself and it's usually a heavier set woman that approaches!

I would gladly date a skinny flat chested women. And always have.

Woman who are confident with their bodies and know there us a lot more to a relationship than the size of their hips are more likely to be in a relationship .......

Would you really want to be in a relationship based on just what you look like?