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I Need to Rant

I’ve been talking to a guy for almost two weeks now but we’re not at the dating stage, just getting to know each other. Everything was fine at the beginning, we texted a lot as well as talked on the phone for long hours. Last weekend he got so busy with work, mother’s day and a birthday party which I understand but ever since then we haven’t been communicating much. He’s the one who asked to take me out and spend time with him. He seems like a great guy and everything it’s just the lack of communication which scares me and makes me think we won’t get any further. I just asked him if he really wants to take me out.


Do you guys think he’s just busy and I need to stop worrying or was it okay for me to ask?
SW-User
I’m In a very similar situation! I met a homeless woman and we hit off great and that she moved into a hostel and we was going to meet up one day as soon as she got a place of her own and she said I was her type of woman and she said I might be her future girlfriend or future wife. Anyway we texted then it started getting longer before she replied and then she didn’t reply for almost two weeks now ! My anxiety is terrible due to that ! But he will get back to you ! If he’s interested he will ! Maybe he’s thinking too much about you And maybe that’s why he keeps getting distracted
FlowerchildK16 · 22-25, F
@SW-User wow! I hope so, he seems interested but I just want confirmation since I’ve been through this so many times in the past and I don’t wanna go through this again.
SW-User
@FlowerchildK16 that’s completely understandable. I can be the same. I hope it works out well for you both 🤗
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Sounds busy to me
Lostpoet · M
He's just busy
xRedx · M
Two possible reasons. He's probably just busy or doesn't want anything anymore. These are the two most common ones I can think of
maturedragon · 26-30, M
it might be a red flag, but it could just be business for all we know
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
You did the right thing.

 
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