I Like to Help People [Helping Others]

I really like to help people, but it’s super annoying when you try to help someone and just get denied. They ask you for
help and then shoot down every idea you give them.

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Fuck em

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Dariqueen · 22-25, F

@Harunaorekko I mean in this case it wasn’t selfish, it was just irritating cause I was searching for answers and spending my time trying to help. I just felt worthless.

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Coolkid77 · 31-35, M

I know how you feel. I like to help people out too, but usually it's me that really needs it.

Dariqueen · 22-25, F

Same, I just like to feel heard though like even a little comment saying they appreciated the help. @Coolkid77

Coolkid77 · 31-35, M

@Dariqueen Same here.

Cannabro · 36-40, M

Sucks when all you wanna do is help but get rejected

Dariqueen · 22-25, F

@Cannabro It’s just so pointless. Like it’s my time spent, and wasted.

MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

Like how

Dariqueen · 22-25, F

A friend of mine was complaining about needing an idea for a project we are working on together. And she said she was stressed out anencephaly wanted help coming up with one. Since then, i’ve given her about 8 ideas and she shot them all down.

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

You're trying to help them and trying is enough, you don't have to succeed. Remember, you're helping [i]them[/i].

Dariqueen · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst In this situation it was something we were working on together and she just would not take my input. But that’s very true, especially in the field I’m in (social work)

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

@Dariqueen well yeah in that case you need to take charge.

Dariqueen · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst yea it’s a work thing though, it’s personal. But yea I should have some input cause it’s a collaborative thing.

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