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What double standard(s) do you dislike most? [I Ramble]

If a man has wrinkles, it defines character. If a woman has wrinkles, it's bad.


If a man is overweight, people are most likely to shrug it off. If a woman is overweight, she must not care about herself (and the various other crap 😐)
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
The slut/stud thing. "she's had sex with like, 10 guys! what a slut!" "He's had sex with 100 different women this week! What a stud!"
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
@SW-User It's toned down some from when I was a teenager, but it still happens and it's infuriating to me
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@SarahAndSamantha that standard is imposed by those who are missing out lol!
SW-User
@SarahAndSamantha yes a bit less but still is a very strong one and people still judge
SW-User
Abuse, like it's imagined that men are always the abusers not victims of women.
Like if a man is the victim is weak or things like that.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@SW-User That's awful as well 🥀 I recently watched a video about that topic
SW-User
@JupiterDreams yeah imagine home abuse..
From what I have seen anyone overweight is immediately judged. Which with our puritanical culture leads people to believe it's a sin of some kind and a moral failing. I have even come across one preacher that said anyone overweight goes to hell. I wish I could send that preacher to hell instead😡
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@canusernamebemyusername That's awful ☹️

I do think it probably depends on the area too. Because most of my life I've heard people say, "He's overweight because he works so hard at his job and he's stressed, his wife makes really good meals, he doesn't have time to workout..."

But women rarely received the same excuses
@JupiterDreams That is kind compared to what I have heard. What I hear is more like, "he or she is fat because they are lazy and can't control themselves. Why don't they get a job instead of eating all the time?"
They don't take into account gut micro-flora, genetics, medications, etc... It's always the person's fault. And if it is their fault they must be an evil diseased person out to spread fatness and eat their children.
i dont think people just shrug off men being over weight.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@undetermined In my area it is, because I've heard many excuses like, "He's overworked and doesn't have time to workout," etc

But it's probably a location thing 🌺
@JupiterDreams maybe, in my area everyone gets made fun of for being overweight.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@undetermined That's too bad ☹️ Maybe someday people will be more understanding
Blm, Trans, left stuff is basically all lies, and ignorance
@checkoutanytime like women matter but since theres no gender men can become women and over take their sports
JupiterDreams · 31-35
1490wayb · 56-60, M
dresscode seems to be much relaxed for women
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@1490wayb 🌺
I realized I didn't actually answer this question. My most hated is that courts tend to award kids to the mother because they think females can't abuse children. The justice system when it comes to males/females is pretty disgusting.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Alison · 18-21, F
That cis women expect trans women to play dom.
Oh and if a trans woman friendzones a cis woman: It's just not fair or something🤷‍♀️.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Alison Awww ☹️
Lilymoon · F
Men's haircuts are $25.00
Women's are $75.00 😠
Lilymoon · F
@MrBlueGuy 50 is high for a guy haha!

@canusernamebemyusername more expensive here I'm in Canada 🤭
@Lilymoon I tip good xD
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Lilymoon 🙀☹️
If a guy is overweight I immediately start to form judgements.
SW-User
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@PrincessVelvet It might just depend on the area/culture haha, because I've heard the opposite most of my life 🌺
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Evolutionary mating strategy does not necessarily respect equal standards
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Sometimes you just have to be an iconoclast and break things!
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@ozgirl512 🌺
Men are compassionate and women are emotional
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Pinkstarburst Trueee

Or men can't be emotional/vulnerable but women can be (or are expected to be).

I've had that happen once where I didn't react "appropriately" to a situation and I was questioned as to why I didn't, yet the men didn't get asked sheeet 😬
TexChik · F
our two tier justice system in the US
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@TexChik 🌺
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