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Let's say you have 4k in savings... [I Ramble]

And you're going to use it to move away to another country and stay with someone while you get your life together.

But a relative knows you have that amount and they want to borrow it to buy their own stuff/pay bills.

Are you obligated to give it to them? Or is it okay to say, "No, that's my savings to move with."


* This is a serious question btw... 馃槬
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ViciDraco36-40, M
Unless they are in a life or death situation, I wouldn't feel pressured to give them money. You planned and set aside for something to move your life forward. If you put your life on hold for them now you won't be able to help them in the future when they get to the same place again. It's just delaying the inevitable
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