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Let's say you have 4k in savings... [I Ramble]

And you're going to use it to move away to another country and stay with someone while you get your life together.

But a relative knows you have that amount and they want to borrow it to buy their own stuff/pay bills.

Are you obligated to give it to them? Or is it okay to say, "No, that's my savings to move with."


* This is a serious question btw... 😥
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
You say no. I don't know why this is even a question.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@DunningKruger I struggle with saying [i]no[/i] and I've never really learned boundaries or when it's okay to think of myself... I feel guilt whenever I do, like I'm selfish 😥
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@JupiterDreams Quoting Zoe Bee from YouTube: "Do no harm — but take no shit."