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Why are best friends assholes to each other’s? [I Want a Best Friend]

They seem to yell at each other pick on each other and get nasty or when they’re together than other friends.
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Rolexeo · 26-30, M
If you feel the need to be cordial with them you're not really friends
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Rolexeo what’s cordial?
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl being polite and proper
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Rolexeo What’s wrong with that?! I thought you were going to say “being mean”. Someone told me that if I’m too nice to my best friends than I’m not really their friend because most best friends are dicks to each other have the closes bond. That’s no way to bond with people.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl You have much to learn about people, it absolutely is. Even people that hate eachother intensely have a sort of chemistry.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Rolexeo I don’t understand this world. We got taught to be polite and use our manners but instead people love being mean and nasty.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl Not nasty per-se. But nobody wants a relationship that is very controlled and kinda boring. That's the difference between a friend and an acquaintance. With a friend you don't really have to watch what you say.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Rolexeo Bullshit! I don’t believe that.
My best friends to get mad at me when I get mad at a joke. They scold that they’re just messing with me god! They love giving me a very hard time. They don’t let me off easy at all and they never let me forget my mistakes. They’re so brutally honest with me they told me it is easier being brutally blunt to me than my others because best friends call it as they see it, even if the truth is painful and makes you cry. Sometimes I just don’t like my best friends.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl Yes, an acquaintance wont give you a hard time, they'll just be boring and talk about the weather