Going back to an ex

I had an affair with aomeone a year ago. My hubby is gone 4 months of the year. This guy is not good for me but i can't stop.... i block him, thwn ubblock him. I donr want to see him, but cant resiat texting him. Any suggestions?

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bijouxbroussard · F

It’s a decision [b]you[/b] have to make. Maybe time to get a divorce and focus on the other fellow. Cheating isn’t the answer.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@bijouxbroussard I read her post to mean the other fellow is not good for her. It sounds as if you read that as a reference to her husband. Maybe the OP can clarify...

bijouxbroussard · F

@DrWatson Ah. Well, that makes the decision a little easier. If she’s smart, she’ll leave the lover alone. But it sounds like she’s not happy with her husband either, or at least the situation with his absence. What I’m sure she [b]doesn’t[/b] want is to end up getting caught cheating, because [b]then[/b] it’s out of her hands.