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Is this true, for you?

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I do not agree. It sort of reduces someone to an object and dehumanizes them. Oh I get it. And I get disliking some behavior, blunders, or feeling hurt. But how can you separate the two. It seems robotic. The way they made me feel.. [i]was[/i] their mind, their body, their essence, their words, their giving of themselves. That, IS them, to me.

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KBeeDa · M

I think it is aimed at people who ended up ruining you in many ways but you used to love them soo much.

So now you don't miss themm because you know the real them, but you can't help but miss the days and the feelings before you knew the real them.

Magenta · F

@KBeeDa Yes I think that's exactly what it's aimed at. And I so get that. Thank you.

There are bad memories intermingled with the good.
The dark doesn't negate the light, to me.

P.S. Maybe sometimes it's what we think they are, wishful thinking and projection. Perception can be to blame too.

KBeeDa · M

@Magenta i absolutely agree with it being partially our faults because of perception and our own wishful thinking.
I experienced that first hand haha..

And I don't think that the dark ever negates the light too، i was just commenting on maybe the cases that such statement make sense ^^

Magenta · F

@KBeeDa Ha, I would wager we all have experienced that. Oops!
And I appreciated your comments too. 😊

KBeeDa · M

@Magenta that is true and really sad unfortunately.
But that is life

And thank you ^^