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I Am Curious About the Dominant Submissive Lifestyle

i'm a young female but i dont think i'm a sub, i'm just a very obedient girl as i've been all my life from a strict upbringing. i prefer to be a good obedient girl that needs to be looked after rather then someones sub who gets used. id rather be cared for than used :P whats your opinion on this?
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xp47rb · M
I think you're a lot smarter than a lot of women who leave themselves wide open to abuse by being too submissive.
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
A good relationship has care and affection regardless

I don't really do the BDSM thing, but I'm very caring and affectionate, my sweet side is what mostly shows when a woman is submissive, my intense dominant side comes out when pushed too far or too often
Evened · 51-55, M
As @Confined said, there is no "exact" definition of what a submissive is. It depends on both partners to fill that term with life. The same goes with obedience.
@Evened i've never been a sub to anyone before so hadn't had anything to compare it to lol, i've just gone of what people have told me but thanks for the info
Evened · 51-55, M
You are welcome, we all start somewhere and sometime, trying to find answers to please our curiosity :)
djjohnson · 41-45, M
You've described the two extremes of Dom/Sub relationships. The DDLG and the Master/Slave styles. You want the DDLG. The kind where the dom sees to the needs of the sub, and the sub trust the dom to know what those needs are.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
I cannot understand why anyone want to be used but then I haven't had their experiences. I can however understand why someone wants to be cared for and behave as a little in the process.
zork0000 · 56-60, M
@MrAverage1965 In some cases, it might be that they were brought up that sex is dirty, or at least some aspects of it were. If doing things is not their decision so to speak that would make it ok.
Tailspin · 36-40, M
Being obedient sexually is part of a dom/sub relationship, but there is much more to it than just that. I’ve been dominant basically my entire sexual life
ron122 · 41-45, M
I think I know what you mean. You want someone to make you feel good and care for you and you will do the same for the. Right?
Khenpal1 · M
I don't think you may be so obedient as you think , it may change when you got older and with experience
zork0000 · 56-60, M
As I understand it, the sub is the one who is really in control because they are the one who sets the limits.
Confined · 56-60, M
Being submissive is not about being used.
@Confined i've been told many times it is and that's what put me off it
Confined · 56-60, M
@BlondeTeddybear Im submissive and I dont get used unless I allow it. No two relationships are the same. It is what you want it to be. It takes a special Dom to help you on your journey. @xp47rb is right, dont leave yourself open to being abused. You spell out with your partner what you want. Hugs
i have had 2 DD relationships it can be hard for the woman and its not for every one
heywood83 · M
Being obedient is still part of that. No reason to want to be used unless you like it.
account123 · 80-89, M
The advantage is that you can get fucked as often as you like.
jenmil · 22-25, F
Being used would be part of it I think
@jenmil that's why i wouldn't consider myself a sub because i wouldn't want to be used, i'm just an obedient girl
account123 · 80-89, M
How old are you. You did not say?
account123 · 80-89, M
yes, to be cared is to be loved.
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
What about a dom
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