I Don't Trust Easily Anymore

a beloved man says
there are 2 kinds of trust
trust method, "he has ability"
and turst motive "will this person turn out to be deceptive."
this has helped me decide who to trust and why.
oh, yeah, One must WAIT to find out if someone deserves trust!

My nephew said practically the same thing not long ago. Wise person for an 11 year old

Know them deeper. Try to understand what causes them to hurt and hurt you. Open to those who open to you

And both are valid reasons.

Profound, and sadly, true.