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Why are men so oblivious to all the signs that I give them that I like them ?
31-35, F
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Picklebobble · 56-60, M
Men are notoriously bad at trying to figure all that stuff out !
But you have to cut us a break !
Many men were raised by single women.
So watching or learning about flirting interaction just doesn't happen like it did three generations ago !
That, plus all the 'sensitivity training' that many companies put their staff through.
(More to avoid potential sex discrimination lawsuits than anything else !)
Means that men, in general. Have learned to be polite and learned to listen. But are really bad at picking up 'subtle signals' from you gals !
In other words, yes we need it spelled out to us !
But you have to cut us a break !
Many men were raised by single women.
So watching or learning about flirting interaction just doesn't happen like it did three generations ago !
That, plus all the 'sensitivity training' that many companies put their staff through.
(More to avoid potential sex discrimination lawsuits than anything else !)
Means that men, in general. Have learned to be polite and learned to listen. But are really bad at picking up 'subtle signals' from you gals !
In other words, yes we need it spelled out to us !