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I am sick and tired of listening to people moan how hard done by they are and how life is hard . Instead of wingeing feel grateful you have your health , that you have a job that you live comfortably etc , because there are others out there far worse than your selves who havnt got jobs , who havnt got money to splash around who arnt in perfect health some who are dieing and can do nothing about it , who havnt had a holiday in years .For once in your miserable lives try thinking about others and not be so dam selfish . I nearly died last year ,cant drive anymore ,living on a limited income , living on borrowed time don't know what my life span is , in constant pain a heart that could fail any minute ,have bi-polar etc but I get up every morning , smile and if someone says how do you feel ,my answer is fine or not to bad . I keep it to myself as no one really wants to listen to me complain about how I feel and I don't want to bring others down by feeling sorry for me .So next time you want to moan about something trivial don't .
If your in debt that's your problem no one elses if you smoke and want to give up then stop .Stop expecting everyone else to solve your problems .Get a bit of gumshin and sort your own problems .
Miram · 31-35, F
While I understand the heaviness of expectations and do agree many should focus on solutions more, I don't think telling them others have it far worse is a healthy step. Because I am sure those who have worse health, no job, less money..etc also get that comment a lot.

Feelings are legitimate. It is easy to either ignore vents or telling them you can't handle it and do something else with your time.

People respond differently to crisis. What works best is different.

 
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