Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

I Feel Worthless

So I found out why the girl I like stopped talking to me. She found another guy, and has cut all contact. I am so worthless, no one will ever love me no matter how much of myself I give to them. I would do anything to be with her. I would let her take complete advantage of me if that was her wish. I would even accept being someone she wants on the side. In many ways I feel like Jake Gatsby. I am willing to mold myself to be what she wants so I could be with her. I don't know what to do with myself now. I guess I'll never be loved, and I just don't deserve to feel love.
Christian · 26-30, M
Wow....haha. I find it interesting how much certain people have this destined determination to be someones significant other. I wish I could be like this, I'm too busy having fun and doing my own thing. I feel like I'm selfish sometimes because I kinda like being single. But I found out that if you stay positive all the time it attracts lots of ladies. My best friend fails when it comes to women because he has "mac on girl sessions". He always feels depressed when he doesn't "score" and that's his problem. You shouldn't need someone else to be happy. If he would just be himself and be happy about life he'd attract way more women. I'm a shy guy but I've had girls in the past approach me simply because I looked like I was happy and tranquil. This is coming from someone who looks like the average Joe. It's not bad to go for a specific someone but don't attach yourself too much to that single person because they can be taken like in your case. Either way it's gonna kind of suck but that's part of it and you just have to move on most times unless you know for sure that you can steal her heart. The thing that's cool about doing your own thing is that if a girl finds your lifestyle interesting they'll let you know through hints or sometimes upfront.
Brokenness · 26-30, M
Well honestly if she just completely stopped talking to you just because she got a new guy then she's not the type you want that's bs but don't think that your worthless because of one girl especially with what you said about doing anything to satisfy her there are girls out there who dream and wish to have a guy like that something's just take time bad things happen everyday don't beat yourself up over a girl just focus on making yourself happy and finding someone who appreciates you :)
SW-User
This low self esteem is what makes you fail. Man up and give yourself some worth. Nobody is gonna love you if you don't love yourself
Squizz5 · 51-55, M
Great advice for you here by all the other posters. Develop your self worth and don't be too hard on yourself. Being single and in a relationship both have their good points, but enjoy being single while you are. The girl for you will come along

 
Post Comment