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have you ever pertended to be friends with some one just because you need their help?

we used to be good friends we were more than friends but now dont want her around i wish she disappears off my life somehow, she changed we dont talk alot lately and when we do it turns into an argument she has some really trust issues always have to ask about details and when i ask why all the questions she doesn't answer me she just says nothing.
the only reason i am being friends with her cuz i will need her help but when i am done i will tell her how i really feel
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Well seems to me she's right to have trust issues
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
its not like i need her money i she is better than me and i need her advice sometimes
@TheNewMan: bottom line is you are using her, she senses that and you accuse her of having trust issues, but she's right not to trust you as you don't want her friendship.
Treat her with a little more respect
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
there were some moments where i thought i love her, now i am just upset that she doesn't have any slight feelings for me and i am her first and closest friend.
@TheNewMan: then why talk of using her?
Maybe you should have an open and honest conversation with her
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
she is self shut kinda person every time i try to have deep conversation she always escapes and changes the subject she wants to keep everything as shallow as possible.
sometimes she gets mad she thinks i dont trust her she thinks i dont believe her, i tired of it