How come people think that watching cooking shows will help you cook better, but nobody believes that watching porn will make you a great lover?

Cooking shows are fat people's porn

Because porn is for men predominantly, it's not a guide book on how to pleasure an actual woman....Let's face it..they whip their dick out and she's already cum twice lol

You can read or watch anything, but actually doing creates a more refined polished result. Life isn't about watching or reading, but actually living and learning through ones own exploration and discovery.

Because guys who look to porn for tips realize it's a bad call after the first time they give a woman an unexpected facial.

Watching cooking shows doesn't make you a better cook. There's the flaw in your reasoning.

I don't think "lover" is the right word buuuut it can definitely make u a monster..