how do i decline someone borrowing money? i have autism so i have trouble asserting myself. she keeps on pushing me that i let her borrow money
26-30, F
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eyeno · M
[b]Good Way to loose friends and potential ones.
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In my youth I too struggled with the word "NO".
Now when people in need ask or ask to borrow and [u]I decide to give[/u], I'll just resign myself to accept the fact that I'll never see it ever again, which is usually the case.
One such person actually hid her face as I passed by the table she was sitting at with co-workers in a restaurant.
I could have made a scene and probably have her fired (using company financial records) but felt this was payment enough (shame & guilt) from her.
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In my youth I too struggled with the word "NO".
Now when people in need ask or ask to borrow and [u]I decide to give[/u], I'll just resign myself to accept the fact that I'll never see it ever again, which is usually the case.
One such person actually hid her face as I passed by the table she was sitting at with co-workers in a restaurant.
I could have made a scene and probably have her fired (using company financial records) but felt this was payment enough (shame & guilt) from her.