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How would you feel when you get to know that they were just using you as a distraction and you werent any special or shit?

Thats normal. People are too shallow & obsessed with their own desires to even *see* me let alone recognize how special i am😁
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@DarlingSelah hahah I know right
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Ahh this happens all too often.. Sadly we learn this lesson the hard way.. it's important that we DO learn and avoid that happening again.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Donotfolowme I believe we are smarter... we can be.. it will happen.. it does happen.. I promise you this.. because I've been there! We do learn.. yes we might get stung a time or two.. but we can learn and we can avoid..
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Adaydreambeliever I think what we end up learning is shutting the door at everyone thinking they would be the same as the last time and that isn't particularly a smart thing to do.
Peaches · F
@Donotfolowme Be very thankful you're NOT like them! 😊
SW-User
Would feel used. I think this happens a lot and on social sites like crazy.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@SW-User so sad people play around like it means nothing
SW-User
@Donotfolowme Yeah it is. Or they're already committed and it can't go any further.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@SW-User either way its not acceptable or fair
Lostpoet · M
🙄i already know
Lostpoet · M
@Badterri I don't think we know that we are doing it. And not all guys some are lucky to find their soul mate and they live happily ever after.
Badterri · 36-40, F
@Lostpoet Lol you know when you are using someone. It's not rocket science. 🤣😂
Lostpoet · M
@Badterri i don't think so all breakups are a form of use. I think everyone feels like their time and effort were stolen from them.
SW-User
Ugh I hate that .. it makes me not want to be around fake ass people anymore
FCNantes · 22-25, M
@SW-User My advice is then to never spend time with Nicky Minaj.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@FCNantes Is she not ghetto enough? I mean Nicky
Piper · 61-69, F
I'd feel pretty crummy, of course. How long I've felt that, has always depended upon the nature of and length of the relation.
Um...No one has ever done that to me.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere or you never realized 🤭
@Donotfolowme Nope. I've had a problem with some creeps who assaulted me about twenty years ago stalking me slandering me in every community I've lived in. The only people who were interested in dating me for most of that time were individuals who believed the lies told them by others without bothering to get to know me and I blew them off as much as I could.

One person bothered to befriend me in spite of all the drama and he is now my husband.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
What goes around comes around
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Keepitsimple I really really hope they get to feel what they put me thru
Ksmile14 · F
I never feel like I'm special so ...... 🤷‍♀️
summersong · F
Not especially surprised tbh.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
💩 Without the smile.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@FCNantes Mr. Shit pillow agrees.
Peaches · F
Been there, 💔😢 it's always painful. I keep to myself until I've had time to deal with it emotionally and then I move on.⭐
I’d be angry and feel like my time had been wasted
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard exactly!! Time wasted is the biggest loss
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
Pretty much like I did at the end of my relationship with my ex-gf. Live and learn.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@travelguy01 yes,be careful next time
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
I have a wank
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@MartinTheFirst oh you are still alive
CestManan · 46-50, F
@Donotfolowme WUUUU HU HU HU someone finally said it.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@CestManan lol leggs
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Sorry. Sorry for them that they had me in front of them & yet lacked the ability to recognize I’m worth far more than they acted like.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit that is true

 
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