I love everything about you that you hate. Is that a good start to a relationship?

no not nessisierly, if i like things that are bad about myself for instance if i was overweight(im not overweight) which i would not love, you should not love that if you love it that would be encouragment ot stay fat, basically you would make it harder for the person to want to improve, human psychology says that people will do the minimum required for them based on how much motivation you get. people who work hard are highly motivated and being fat and being fine with it kills some motivation