If the person you're talking through PM hasn't responded to you in a week, should you give up?

I'm conflicted, i feel like i still gotta send him 500 messages in a day, 200 isn't enoUgh 🤔🤔🤔

SW-User

No definitely don't give up over that.
While it's true some people expect a message ever minute and hate on you if you haven't responded quickly, i think it's healthy to have some decent gaps. Maybe if you were madly in love it might be different, but we all have real life lives going on so waiting a day, or two or ten for a reply seems normal to me.

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SW-User

@SW-User Aw i'm sorry. It sounds like there's some feeling in there that i wasn't aware of. Still, there really could be reasons, you seem like a really nice person, i hope you get a reply soon.

SW-User

I just wanna know how he's doing and wonder if he's alright 😞

SW-User

@SW-User I hope he lets you know soon and that the reason for the delayed reply all makes sense. I have been in a similar situation before so i empathise with how you feel.

SW-User

Three read and unresponded to messages you get locked out of sending more until they respond...so make the last one count!

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SW-User

@SW-User being serious, shoot him another message ,"hey, I haven't heard anything back from you just wondering if you got my message and making sure you're ok? Hit me back when you can just to let me know you got this" wait, see what happens.

SW-User

@SW-User i just did.

SW-User

@SW-User give it a few days. Then you probably have your answer

SW-User

if they've been online in that time..don't bother anymore

Montanaman · M

...Zero messages?🤔😔🤗

SW-User

@Montanaman ye

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

I am in the same boat. Not everyone uses S.W. the same. Maybe he hasn't been on in a while. But I don't know for sure. When I get a message it's short now too.

SW-User

You've been ghosted, ya fool

TexasOutlawTrey · M

No cuz I know they like me

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Yes

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