How do you feel when your friends go Mia? How do you cope?

I don't have a friend named Mia, so they don't go to him/her/(other) (preferred pronoun).

Do you mean MIA? Nah. We all have lives. I get it. :)

I have other ways to contact them besides here, so I'll message them there

I message them to see if they’re ok and if I don’t get a message, I just wait patiently