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Would you be fwb with someone who has cancer?

SW-User
My wife had breast cancer for 10 years, and during that time.. sadly our marriage was failing. She'd also had a full masecotomy... something that didn't change my feelings towards her at all. So right until the end we were friends... although there wasn't those kind of benefits only because of her health issue, but in that situation it was about her needs not mine.
SW-User
Potentially yes. There's lots of caveats. Not all cancers are terminal. Would you deny someone a potentially 'dieing request'. Idk?
StokedFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User if they had breast cancer?
SW-User
@StokedFox Potentially yes.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
No, I wouldn't be a FWB with anyone, and especially now that I am happily married, having cancer (even terminal) would not change that. I have always been either a friend OR a lover, ne'er the two shall meet unless it's in a full relationship/marriage like I am now. Now as to breast cancer...If my wife would develop it and unfortunately have to lose one or both breasts, it would not change how I feel about her or our relationship as far as I'm concerned. Had that happened before we met I'd have still accepted, loved, and married her just as I did.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
I think the question is what stage of cancer/ where/ and whether they want to or not lol.. Although Doesn't seem like the wisest decision to have sex with someone that has cancer, what if it spreads to me 😐 maybe cancer x cancer = no cancer would be better
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@indyjoe I know I know..I'm just tryna be edgy, no personal offense to anyone who got cancer
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@wakanda4eva 🤠👌
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@indyjoe
SW-User
Not with someone who has HPV.

Outside of that, cancer isn't transmittable between humans through sex, so why not?
SW-User
I don't think a cancer patient will be interested doing sex knowing her life is hanging on a thread. :/
abe182 · 46-50, M
Yes! Because if the situation was reversed that person would be a Saint.
Yeah of course, though i'd probably get emotionally attached
SW-User
Yes - the cancer isn't the determining factor in the decision
Sure. They have just as much value as anyone else.
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
it isn't contagious - so sure
I don't see why not. I mean honestly
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
If she wants to, yes
Outlook is bleek.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Idk. Maybe not.
TacoCat · 22-25, M
I guess so
Maineguy · 51-55, M

 
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