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How does it feels when you are desperately asking help from people but they give you a long preach instead of helping hand ?

kayoshin · 36-40, M
Sometimes you get the help you need not the one you ask for also nothing comes free in this world that help might come with a big speech, could be worse sometimes it comes with a dagger between your shoulder or a dick up your.. eh you get the point.
@kayoshin 😁😁😁 yes i got your point, nice answer
TheLoveAge · 36-40, F
TheLoveAge · 36-40, F
Maybe its that they can only preach and can't really help you in some cases. But some have the skill to preach and help too, apparently a little too difficult to find...

I'm sorry they couldn't help you. It's disheartening to be turned away especially in great need. But there are many good & knowledgeable people here with valuable life experience :) You're in good hands💜Don't worry🕊💐
TheLoveAge · 36-40, F
@YukikoAmagi No prob, what's the issue?
@TheLoveAge it's not me. My neighbor, i saw him this evening, he shout that he need help and people not lending him a hand but preaching him instead
TheLoveAge · 36-40, F
@YukikoAmagi what did he need help with?
SW-User
As long as I get what I need, they can preach for hours.
@SW-User in this case they are not giving help, only preaching
SW-User
@YukikoAmagi Then I daydream until finished.
@SW-User 😄😄😄 i always like your answers
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Meh, I don’t need them in my life.
@Rokasu really??😮😮😮
Rokasu · 36-40, M
@YukikoAmagi Well yeah. Relying on people outside of work has never worked all too well for me.
@Rokasu yea.. sometimes we must to steel ourself and going through the toughest alone
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Well what are you asking for in the first place
@MURD3RM0NK3Y quick example : money
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Depends on whether it's repeated behaviour... If it is then the preach is ready what you need, thigh it maybe not what you want...
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@YukikoAmagi sorry if it sounds harsh..
@ozgirl512 there is truth in your answer 😀😀
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@YukikoAmagi sometimes we all need a wake up call .. To heed the call rather than repeating the same behaviour is not easy though .. :)
Fernie · F
what are you asking for and how many people have you asked
Fernie · F
@YukikoAmagi have you asked them for money before? There can be so much more to this story. If everyone turns you down...there is a reason and most likely a valid one. The preaching thing...there is a reason for that as well.
@Fernie it's not me. It's my neighbor, i saw him angry this evening, he shout that he need help and people not lending him a hand but preaching him instead. He looks very upset
Fernie · F
@YukikoAmagi So, you really do NOT know the actual truth...you have no clue why people turn him down...if everyone says no....he has burned his bridges. You really should not be involved since you do not have all the facts...you just see and hear his anger....only his side of the story
SW-User
I know this. That's why I avoid asking people
@SW-User yea.. one of the most 'oh shit' moments 😈😈😈
Fernie · F
@SW-User how silly...that is saying that NO ONE will help you ...ever.
SW-User
@Fernie it's not silly. It's a personal experience.
SW-User
It gets annoying sometimes.
@SW-User only sometimes?
SW-User
It really depends how far they rabble on. ¬_¬
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
I'm a JW, if they preach towards me I preach right back at 'em.
SW-User
@MartinTheFirst You are the only JW I will let in my home
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@YukikoAmagi aw 😊
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@SW-User 1 is enough ;)
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