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I Need Friends

It seems like having a friend isn't all it's cracked up to be . What I experienced is that a friend only wants me to spoil and help them . Why is selfishness considered ok for these so called friends ? A friend has to give and take or else they are not a real friend in my book . Now I know why some people stay introverts .

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Those are not friends, those are users and takers

SW-User

@GJOFJ3 Well they actually think they are too good for me and I have to reward them for saying hello .

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@SW-User I have zero tolerance for that type.

Miklee02 · 51-55, F

Exactly..... I have few cause people are fake 😕

SW-User

It just makes me feel like I can never find a sincere friend . @Miklee02

Miklee02 · 51-55, F

@SW-User I hear ya

Pfuzylogic · M

People can be awful stingy especially with giving people.

Platoscave · F

Well said...in our search for friendship we often seek out what we are not yet getting but the truth is people are the kind of people who will hurt you..unless you get really lucky.

Focusing in the deep spiritual sense...sometimes helps with the search..

But in any case its always a challenge, at least it always was for me.

LyricalOne · F

That’s not a friend.

english · 56-60, M

seems your having trouble finding any middle ground,you think it might be culture clash ? 🤔

SW-User

I think finding a genuine friend is harder than finding a romantic partner.

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