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So just because I refuse to chat with someone from a Microphone and don't want to see a picture of someone, I've been labeled as a man, How rude is that. I find it completely ridiculous that I have to chat with someone that I just met to prove I'm not a man. Come on really!
ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP
[c=#800000]If they are too demanding, use the block button. [/c]
Strictgram · 70-79, C
Mom, Wonder why you haven't responded to my messages?
Strictgram · 70-79, C
Mombrit, I've been waiting to hear from you, please write.
MarySomerville · 46-50, F
Yes I know what you mean. I refuse to send pictures of the family including myself and do not wish to chat via a microphone. I take the view that people can chat on here with me or not. It is their choice. Ignore them as I do.

Mary Somerville
will999 · 70-79, M
You may find this hard to believe Mombrit but it happens to guys too. I have lost count of the number of 18-25, F's who msg. me with next to no personal information in their profile saying they find 'older gentlemen' like me [b]very attractive[/b] and maybe we should 'get together' some time. As soon as I ask what subject we last talked about their profile disappears altogether. I don't have to block them. As soon as I demonstrate that I am not a complete fool they lose interest. There is implicit risk inolved in all dealings on the internet, not just this site. It is still worthwhile being able to chat and share various experiences anonymously if you keep your wits about you. Fakes turn up everywhere in life, sad but true. It is part of the game. I do not expect Similar Worlds to solve the problem because Similar Worlds exists for the purpose of allowing atrangers to chat anonymously with a minimum of formality. That is the main attraction with it. If there are one or two scam artists who want to take advantage of everyone else they will be the biggest loser of all and it serves them right. My experience with Similar Worlds and previously with Experience Project is mostly rewarding and satisfying. I think that is most likely also true for you as well.
SarahNation · 70-79, F
Block the idiots
MaryCaning · 46-50, F
Same here ,but i have friends here on line I went at their homes and recently on holday in America my whole family met ladies and their families we originally met online at SW .
1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
@MaryCaning that's interesting I
Ynotisay · M
It's part of the anonymous online experience. Don't take it personally. Truth be told, after looking at your profile, I'd assume you were a man too.
MarySomerville · 46-50, F
@Mombrit Like you I do not show a face picture or pictures of my 3 children. As spanking is frowned upon in the UK I prefer to remain under the radar so to speak. At school teachers are asked to look out for signs of spanking and that is even worse when it is a PE lesson as in the showers sometimes it is so obvious. So as we do not want social services knocking on our door we do not publicise spanking other than on here and never show pics of the family.
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@MarySomerville That’s creepy. You’re hiding the fact that you abuse your children and brag about it here ? 🤬
Callaghen · 61-69, M
its pretty stupid of them to do that , as before they opened their mouth , it could have been a good friendship on here , oh well takes all kinds, hi from Canada
MaryCaning · 46-50, F
Totally agree ,apart from Desmond I do not talk to any man on this site as they make assumptions and do not respect my dignity
Rachely3 · 31-35, F
In my experience is always the men who DO want to "see pictures" right away. Just ignore the haters/fakers.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Ignore the stupid ones. There are some good friendships to be made here
GirlSerendipity · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3: true dat!
MaryCaning · 46-50, F
i can tell if it is a man usually by how he writes, and his manners or if he sends me a picture lifted from the Web
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Lynda70 · F
Don't worry about it. I've been labelled a man just for disagreeing with a misandrist.
will999 · 70-79, M
Hello Mombrit 41-45, F. There's a few obnoxious people at Similar Worlds but the vast majority are not like that. You do not [i]have[/i] to chat with anyone or prove anything to someone you do not feel comfortable with. If you just ignore them they go fishing somewhere else.
I have had that a lot on here. I will show pictures of myself or talk on skype but not until i feel i can trust them and they are who they say they are
SW-User
if you have spent a long time here you would understand why people ask for pics/skype but it's not the same in all cases
lancashirelady50 · 70-79, F
It is a form of grooming or stalking- NEVER send your address or phone number to anyone online. You can be found.
AndieBarrons9919 · 22-25, F
Trust me i dont talknto most men on here either
SW-User
@AndieBarrons9919: hello
Strictgram · 70-79, C
MomBrit Wonder why you haven't responded to my emails?
jackson55 · M
Check their profiles. Plenty of pervs and creeps here.
Father8787 · 46-50, M
We have many groups in common would you like to chat?
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
chats are chats. I find trust and maybe, just maybe a bit further.
Teirdalin · 31-35
They sound like they don't have a functioning brain.
Uncfred · 61-69, M
Water off a ducks back, not worth your worry.
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tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
People judge to fast here
ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP
[c=#800000]You look like a woman to me. 🕵️[/c]
Callaghen · 61-69, M
And such a beautiful women !!
Jennagurl · 46-50, T
Welcome and enjoy.
vnvnvngjhtgty · 41-45, F
that is really rude
Finerthings · 56-60, M
I trust ya.
tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
kush90 · 26-30, M

 
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