To let the past be that " the past" we know it informs the present only"
Life hurts happen to us all, it's what we make it mean about us or those within the said situation. How long we muddle mentally over what occurred, then that's how long we stay a victim or stagnant with the scar.
Also time can mix up events, shadows of faces mixed in, what is really true to what accutaly occurred. We know, if 100 people did witness an accident, each may have seen something different.
Be complete with your past, it's done, it's gone. Been complete, means no one right now can impose on your present life. (Out of sight, out of mind " peace" )
To be To be at peace (nothing to change the nothing )
@ScarletWitch Yea, we all bear scars, some are self inflicted though. There is room for more, even for me, so I enjoy my life in spite of or because of the scars.