I Am Going Through a Horrible Breakup [Painful Breakups]

the advice for when you see them again. be at your best. no caffeine. get in a great workout. buy a new blouse. look your best. meditate. feel your best. Are you not a natural born actress? can't do this? well then oops, you again are failing at the game of life. Any display of pain means loss of leverage. can't lose that.