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I Have a Broken Heart

The father of my 2 babies has literally destroyed me. He has cheated on me more times than I can count. I had our daughter at 18 and he left me one week later, i told myself I would never ever ever forgive him. What do I do? Get back with him 😂😂 he keeps doing crap that is a red flag & I keep saying "I'm done this time I really mean it I'm done"
I keep trusting him & letting him back in because I'm sooo stupid lol. So then I just had our second baby, he's a month old now & he left us again but that's ok because I'm FINALLY beginning to realize all I need are my 2 wonderful babies, I don't need a man most definitely, they got my heart forever & always ❤️
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Be strong! Do not allow anyone to treat you like that! We set the tone for how much people respect us!
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You are welcome! Be strong dear!! @charley
Once a cheater always a cheater. Don't take this loser back....just take him to court for child support. He's a loser and a deadbeat dad.
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@charley Be encouraged sweetie! We have to insist we are treated with respect!!! If not, they will walk all over you and stomp on your heart! You and your children deserve better!
nightowl7 · 46-50, M
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 Remember, you didn't make those kids on your own. Whether he ever becomes part of their life or not, he's still responsible for them financially. Don't give him a free pass. Trust me, they will need it.
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Oh she will learn how much they need it soon enough....@nightowl7
newbie · 31-35, F
Instead of saying he has destroyed you, you should feel happy he has blessed with your two wonderful children 🤗

it's true your body and part of your youth will be consumed (not destroyed), but with a giving heart like yours eventually you will find a man that really appreciate you ❤
newbie · 31-35, F
@charley you'll be sexy and dating again in no time. a lot of guys say they actually prefer dating single moms as they are considered "very easy" ...

in any case just drop your stupid ex - you obviously dont need him!
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newbie · 31-35, F
@charley I didn't say you're easy - I was saying what the general reputation is of young single moms ...

from your story it sounds like you're quite hardened by your experience with your ex...
do your self a favor and stay well away from him not matter what he says. My kids are my life and they are all i needed
VAMPFREAKZ69 · 46-50, M
I know the feeling my ex cheated on me when we were together always accusing me of cheating on her when all I do is work come home cook for both of us watch a movie play video games on my PS4 and that was my down time from work and all she wants to do is complain how I play video games and I would sit and look at her you're here all day on your cell phone on your tablet don't want to pay any attention then she would get mad at me when I turn the movie off you're not watching it I'm watching it by myself I put it on for both of us so when I found out that she was cheating on me I told her she had to go and then she wanted to cry I love you I care about you well if you love me and you care about me like you say you do you wouldn't have cheated on me and accuse me of cheating on you when it was you cheating on me. So now she is living with her friend and her boyfriend at her friend's house her mother don't want her nowhere near her daughter because of the boyfriend that she's with now I told her karma bit her in the ass. Letting you know you're not alone I'm in that boat with you.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
This guy is a fool. Good for you standing up for yourself.
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mathsman · 70-79, M
Hooray
You've taken control
caccoon · 36-40
You deserve to be loved and respected. Raising children is a lot of work (from what I hear!) so having a good partner, or being strong enough to do it on your own seems key. :)

Also being in a happy and healthy relationship yourself, you'll set a good example of a loving environment for your kids...

I really sound like I'm talking down to you, so I'm sorry. :( But I wish you luck! ♡
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NudistDom23 · 56-60, M
we learn everyday of our lives. Now you know what you do not want, go find what you do!
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May your future be full of all the love and joy that you deserve.
OzDiver · 61-69, M
Good on you! Glad you've taken control now. Well done.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Why did you take a known cheater back?
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@charley that’s awesome
newbie · 31-35, F
@charley it sounds like what you're really in love with is the sex! once you find out you can have as great experience and joy with another man you will get over your addiction to your first 😊

just maybe when you start explore you should consider using contraceptives, if you can't manage taking a regular pill you can those injections that last 6 months. have fun being single again! 😏
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Sometimes it happens...when we love someone who really don't care about us.. but we still love like mad.. .I done that already too... destroyed my self..
But I am trying to come out and rebuilt myself ...never back down😊
newbie · 31-35, F
@AngelKrish seems for some it happens all the time ... maybe you should rethink how you approach women... 🤔
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Well, there are a lot of good guys out there. Some of them just aren't mature enough to handle anything until they are 25+.
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@charley In the mean time, I don't blame you a bit!
nightowl7 · 46-50, M
Now, decide what you and those babies deserve.....and don't settle for less...or someone who doesn't give you that freely.
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JP1119 · 36-40, M
You're right, you don't need him. I hope you find another partner to help you care for your children.
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Oh!...Oh!...Sorry to hear your troubled past mademoiselle!...

GOD bless you!...☺
Wow, do you have help from family?
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@charley aww gee what a horrible creep 😞 Good luck to you and your family and hope you one day meet a great guy 🌸
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Bustoff77 · M
Hope that works out for you . Your kids will probably thank you for it someday .
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
It's not an easy thing to get over but you can do it
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vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
@charley sounds like its going in the right direction :)
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Jammer6475 · 46-50, M
Go buy some toys!!!!!!!
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Jammer6475 · 46-50, M
wanna chat?
Terrance · 41-45, M
I think you know the answer
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
You deserve better lovely!
steview100 · 46-50, M
Such a bond as a mother for you.
Cor what a jerk he is!
jaymic64 · M
Good for you

 
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