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If I feel I cannot genuinely say something nice to somebody, I usually prefer to say nothing. How do other members feel about this?
alan20 · M
@CalmeHopelessNotRomantic ; I'd say we're pretty close to agreeing on this. I'd like to think I AmRomantic though. Please don't ask me to define romantic! (because without a lot of thought I can't)
alan20 · M
@WithinTheHeart : I like attempts to be honest and hate blatant hypocrisy, but I wouldn't feel too happy if I thought I was really hurting somebody.
I think you're misunderstanding our i didn't explain right. I try to help people. But sometimes i use humour to do so. A lot of times its misinterpreted as me being mean. It's not. I am not one of those people looking to hurt anyone, you can ask any of my friends here. But there are people who genuinely don't get things, i will explain if they're honestly not getting it. People looking for fights or attention get immediately blocked by me.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
I hold back on my thoughts a lot.. If I type it up and change my mind..
Haha well i guess we can make it mean whatever we want
alan20 · M
@bethsmiles : you seem to have a kind, positive outlook , but I don't know about the fault lying in you. If someone says something I find offensive - like racism, intolerance, homophobia, anti-women - I don't feel guilty about feeling angry. I usually just prefer not to engage, which I suppose is cowardly.
alan20 · M
@ Callme. But if its someone on SimilarWorlds,you don't really know them. They could be really obnoxious, or just expressing themselves badly, or just having an off-moment that they will come to regret minutes later. Or maybe I just have a tendency to make life complicated.
Haha i see certain words all the time since i started using this. One of my favourites is the word romantics, but not a way to describe more than one romantic. The name of an album is a lesson in romantics. Oh man I'm gonna shut up now because I've confused myself and everyone else lol
alan20 · M
@WithinTheHeart : I agree entirely with your last communication ; sorry I couldn't respond earlier. Sometimes, in my own case, emotion can take over from what I know to be the correct course, and I'm not always consistent. Cheers!
With me it really depends on the amount i care about a person. I mean if it's someone that i think just doesn't get it, I'll usually try to explain and it might be sarcastic but i wouldn't ever be mean just because.
I would prefer to do that but since I can't block people anymore (as my list is full) I go off on them directly cause I'm aggravated .. But maybe I should change and be more cordial.. Idk o.O
if I can't find genuinely nice thoughts to ponder, or words to say, the fault lies in me. That said, there are times when silence is golden 🙈🙉🙊😊
alan20 · M
@Callme : Ah ! I used to think lol meant Lots of Love . What a pity !

 
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