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Help. My boyfriend wants to "share" me with another man... What should I do?

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AKMike
First of all, it's your body: not his. So he doesn't get to "share you." Frankly, you are sharing yourself with him.

Beyond that, it's then all about getting what you want out of life. It's totally okay for him to say he'd like to see you with someone else, but it's up to you to say if you want to. If it's really important to him, then you'll have to pick between him and what you want.

On the other hand, don't underestimate the power of fantasy. In other words, just because he'd like to see you with someone else, doesn't mean you couldn't do it through roll play or fantasy without actually getting someone else involved. Maybe do it over the phone, where you pretend to be with someone else, but you aren't.

I've found that a lot of my fantasies don't last that long. I'm into a particular kink for awhile then move on. It's been so much better to just role play or do it in my imagination without bringing in the complexity of another HUMAN. Because, in the end, these are humans interacting: not actors.