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should i give up on her or should i be fight for her?

i m in a relation with girl whose family have a conservative mind and are not supporting her . should i move on or make her family agree. although i have tried 2 times but her parents a out the world conservative. i wana marry her but they r typical way typical pakistani family.who thinks love affair is wrong
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speeddevil70
I feel your pain!
That's the hardest thing you could ever go through. Not knowing what to do, should you give up? Should you fight? Questions you can't answer.
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I can't give you a final answer, because we both know that if I told you to fight, you'd blame her parents, and if I told you to give up, you'd say you love each others. After all that's a decision you have to take on your own.
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Sit with your girl, while both of you are calm, discuss your future together and see where things would go. She should take a stand against her parents and fight for her love. At the same time, you should prove to her parents that you are responsible enough to take care of their daughter, cherish her, and treat her like a queen. Parents -especially old school conservative parents- might always be picky when it comes to choose the right man for their daughter, but when both of you stand your grounds, you can make a change, hopefully.
Personally, I'm against a girl running away for a guy, no matter how strong the love is, things might go wrong, and she'd lose both her parents, and her 'lover'. Instead, fight for your love together.
On the other hand, if she won't fight for her love, I think you should give up. Because nothing hurts more than not knowing if you're hooked or unhooked.
Best of luck for both of you!
:)
Hasank · 31-35, M
thnks:)
speeddevil70
anytime
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