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How many of your immediate family members do you have no relationship with? Why?

kodiac · 22-25, M
All of them have crossed over.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
None....I have 7 siblings and have been in touch with all of them this month, and we all did a Zoom call for Thanksgiving.
My siblings are my closest friends.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@DragonFruit that's awesome 🙂
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@iamnikki Yes, it is....it’s strange not getting together with a few of them for the holidays.
texasborn89 · 31-35, M
My brother. There's no reason why. We're on good terms we just don't talk or text that much. He lives like an hour away so we rarely saw each other before the pandemic began
theAlchemist · 56-60, M
All of them. I refuse to be cast into the role of family scapegoat and forever be bowing and scraping to please them. I hope they all get covid and die.
Carazaa · F
@theAlchemist So sorry to hear you are scapegoatet! But don't wish them ill. Try to forget and heal 🤗
HermannFegelein · 26-30, M
My dad because he’s got anger issues. The guy literally drove me insane and I crashed my car. That was the last straw for me. Used to beat one of my brothers up in the kitchen over petty things.

My older brother who was worthy enough of having my fathers name sees me as nothing but a rebel delinquent just because I refuse to be my fathers punching bag. Acts like he’s tough but if he was he wouldn’t submit to my father so much.

I’m the bad apple for being myself and not wanting to play football. Can’t stand parents who plan their children’s future lives out like they’re chess pieces without giving the child a say in the matter.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
two of my uncles by choice, they’re both pedophiles
one of my aunts because she is a danger to people
my sister is about to be another she’s not coming for christmas cos she hates me for something that’s her fault lol
most of my extended family i don’t even know their names cos a lot of my family hates each other
oh and my half sister who uses my family for money so we don’t ever talk
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@poisonouscupcake wow, family has a lot of issues 😟
SW-User
None. I get along with all of them well. That is one thing that I'm proud of. My siblings and I are tight, my parents and I have always had a good relationship, other relationships have come and gone but the relationship between me and my family remains strong.
MiserableAtBest · 18-21, F
All of them.
I can’t be in the same room as my mother without one of us loosing it.
My father and I were never close to begin with.
My siblings and I grew apart after we all moved out.

And as to the rest of my family, I haven’t seen them in over a decade.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
About 6.I have 21 first cousin.Some are just not close.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Butterflykisses24 cousins aren't immediate family..but that's alot
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@iamnikki yes I realized after I posted but didn't want to edit.
Miklee02 · 51-55, F
My two sisters..... To hell with the rest
Oh and of course my 2 sons 🥰and granddaughter
SW-User
All of them except my sister who I text regularly but rarely see in person.
SW-User
my dad and i really don’t have a relationship which is odd bc i’m his favorite. my dad doesn’t really show emotion or try to be involved.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@SW-User how do you not have a relationship, despite being the favorite?🤔
SW-User
@iamnikki he’s just really closed off and he likes me bc i get good grades and he thinks i would be the only one who wouldn’t put him in nursing home
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@SW-User 🤔
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
My sisters.
Been estranged from my parents for 20 years, now.
I don’t like to be coerced into doing what other people expect of me. Go figure. @iamnikki
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@PolitelyIrreverent like what?
Them: “You need to bury the hatchet with so and so.”

Me: “I will. I’m just not ready, yet.”

Them: “We think you should do it now, so until you do you’re no longer welcome here.”

Me: “Are you guys sure that’s how you want to do this? Seems a bit extreme.”

Them: “Yes.”

Me: “I wish you would reconsider.”

Them: “We won’t.”

Me: “I love you guys.”

I hugged them, and walked out. In 2000.

@iamnikki
REMsleep · 41-45, F
My dad. He did something that caused me to not speak to him for over 10 years now.

My sister and one of my brothers we keep a group chat but rarely speak in any truly meaningful way but I do make a point to visit my sister few times a year she lives in the next state. She comes to town to see my mom and her old friends like once a month but she never tells me when shes coming so I tend to barely see her when she is here.

I speak to my littlest brother the most solely because he lives with me but still we are all pretty reserved with each other.
Im super close with my mom. My mom is the glue for us all.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@REMsleep thank u for answering
Carazaa · F
none. I have a relationship with all my immediate family, and all my extended family too 🙂
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
2 aunts and an uncle. And their families.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
This year... almost all of them... COVID
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Spokeskitties75 I think you're misunderstanding "no relationship".
Starchild1983 · 41-45, F
I have a relationship with them all 😌
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