I Really Need To Find A Girlfriend
There was a girl I ended up falling in love with in my senior year of high school. We had known each other pretty much our whole lives but I never really developed any real feelings for her til it was too late. We did start to hang out then and spend quality time together but we were both going to different colleges and couldn’t really get to know each other.
When we did start to actually spend time together. It was like I enjoyed every second of it. Now I really want to have that again but I am kind of really struggling to find someone.
I’ve been trying online dating or just talking to people online but nothing ever seems to work out. And I feel like it’s really awkward to just approach someone out in public and be like hey do you want to hang out sometime. To say that to someone I don’t know at all feels much easier online than in real life. But then too I never can tell If the people I meet online are actually real or not.
There’s a certain type of person too that I want to date but feel like I’m being too specific or whatever instead of just getting to know anyone that’s just nice to me. I feel really lost and king of don’t know what to do. Do I try and find that specific type of person that I want to be with or do I just settle for anyone that I can actually talk to?
When we did start to actually spend time together. It was like I enjoyed every second of it. Now I really want to have that again but I am kind of really struggling to find someone.
I’ve been trying online dating or just talking to people online but nothing ever seems to work out. And I feel like it’s really awkward to just approach someone out in public and be like hey do you want to hang out sometime. To say that to someone I don’t know at all feels much easier online than in real life. But then too I never can tell If the people I meet online are actually real or not.
There’s a certain type of person too that I want to date but feel like I’m being too specific or whatever instead of just getting to know anyone that’s just nice to me. I feel really lost and king of don’t know what to do. Do I try and find that specific type of person that I want to be with or do I just settle for anyone that I can actually talk to?
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