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Why would someone who knows you for 2 years on and off say 'NO' to a skype conversation worth 15mins?

Say, they know you care...
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F Best Comment
Because they don't like being seen? Because they don't have time? Because they are multitasking? Because they suspect your motives? Because they feel pressured? Because they think it's 'too' important to you? Because they think you are mistrustful? Because they don't feel the need to be *viewed*?
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@Adaydreambeliever I meant you response. Expressing so many fears
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Soul58 Projection? I didn't express any fears, I was *explaining* the reasons a lady might not want to engage in that. I was trying to help you understand as you had asked the question. I wonder... do you always quite nastily attack people who are trying to help you understand? Maybe you feel paranoia? But cannot fully accept that? Do you recognise that calling a stranger who has tried to help you, 'paranoid' is really not nice behaviour?
Perhaps the lady has seen through you
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@Adaydreambeliever I was kidding. Thanks for the help. You are very nice 😊

Deadcutie · 18-21, F
Maybe it’s not appropriate.. like I’m married, there is no reason for me to be on skype talking to guys just for kicks unless there is buisness to take care of
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
@Soul58 I’ve always stated it. I’m not officially, because of age, and other legal and family hurdles, but I consider myself married
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@Deadcutie to who?
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
@Soul58 to this guy and his wife, as well as my female partner
I could name so many reasons.
@Soul58 not too brag very much but a lot of people say i am.
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic interesting. So, what is fun about you? Do you know?
@Soul58 because i don't usually care about anything. My daughters say I'm like an Emo kid from 2012.
Moonbeamsglow · 41-45, F
I struggle with samething with 1 person also 2 years. I have now given up.
SW-User
Scared you'll be disappointed?
SW-User
@Soul58 Sounds like you're looking for a new gf. 🤭
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@SW-User really. Are you implying that I sound desperate?
SW-User
@Soul58 Not at all. Sheesh. Maybe she didn't want to Skype with you because she's scared of seeing that chip on your shoulder. 🙄
SW-User
I'm not comfortable with it ...I just Skype with family on holidays
SW-User
They don't like Skype?🤔
Soul58 · 36-40, M
@SW-User hm
SW-User
@Soul58 idk! 🤷‍♂️ It can mean many different things.. You gotta find more evidence to judge correctly.
tell err shes the one lol


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veridane79 · 26-30, F
I’m not a huge fan of Skype personally. I would rather see people in person for coffee. Then it’s not so awkward when there’s pauses in the conversation.

 
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