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If you are lonely...

Do you love everyone and hope that something sticks?

or....

Do you focus on one person and pray they love you back?
BeefySenpie · M Best Comment
I think a small circle of trusted friends is helpful. A romantic relationship can't be forced just because you're lonely
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@BeefySenpie that's a great way to say it.
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@BeefySenpie @SW-User

To love someone and be loved back is a rare and very hard to find thing. *sigh.
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@Teggy who could not love you? You're amazing Tegs
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@SW-User real love though... it's not easy to find.
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@SW-User so true. *sigh*. I love only one that way. Because I do, I have no need for anyone else.
Reject · 26-30, M
I didn't love everyone, but I get what you mean and I used to love multiple people hoping one of them would like me back. It never worked out, but I doubt focusing everything on one person would have either. Thankfully I don't do any of that anymore!
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@Reject I'm glad you're happy!
I just pretend every man that stands next to me is my husband.

& Hi. Are you back? :)
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@DarlingSelah Ha! Those are some pretty quick marriages. Do you feel like any of them should have been a keeper?

I'm mostly back.
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I focus on one person and it never works out well for me
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@SW-User Both wats have their drawbacks.

Maybe try the everyone thing and see if it works?
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
You can’t love just anyone.
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But you can show people there is love on this planet, not necessarily intimate love but sharing live through empathy and compassion,like giving help ful advice, or buying a homeless person a meal, or help grab someone’s cat out of a tree for them, love comes at different levels. But there is only one person you can love with upre intimacy on top of all other things. @NewBeginnings7790
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
@SW-User That is very true.
Tubbs · F
Well i focus on one person who does love me but we'll never get to date each other irl unfortunately
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@Tubbs oh noes! Why never?
Tubbs · F
@SW-User i can't say
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God. I had to think about this. I don’t really love with an end goal..love Just is.
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@SW-User that sounds sweet.
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I can't love everyone, my heart is way too small and tired for that.
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@SW-User You're young! Maybe it's easier as you get older.
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@SW-User Lol I don't think it'll get easier, I think I'll just learn how to distribute my fucks more wisely.
Sarabee · 41-45
I have God pouring through me how can I hold back
I pray for my man ,but if it's not meant to be so be it🌹
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I’d say I’m in the middle. But leaning towards the former.
Hey, so you are back! Nice!
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
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Just the one
When I'm lonely, being around the friends and family I already have eases that. My romantic feelings are always person-specific. When there isn't such a person, the feelings aren't there.
I've [b]never[/b] been the 'love the one you're with' type.
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@bijouxbroussard I think I might be a "love the one you're with" kinda guy. I think my love flows too freeling and I wish I could damn it up better.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I can't love someone just because I am lonely. That is not how love works...romantically or otherwise.
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@JaggedLittlePill That is a great thing.
Lilnonames · F
Im never lonely i prefer it
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@Lilnonames I'm rarely lonely too.

 
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